My Monthly Fix
Welcome to my "Monthly Fix" where I fill you in on everything my neurodivergent brain is currently fixated on. Every month I'll update this page with what I'm reading or watching, what I'm excited about, what I've learned/discovered or maybe all of the above!
April 2025
What I'm Reading
Non-Fiction: Briefly Perfectly Human by Alua Arthur. In her memoir, Alua shares her journey to becoming a Death Doula- someone who supports a dyine person and their family through that transition. I know that to some this may seem a morbid topic, but in this last year I've lost two people and have been dealing with a lot of grief. I was at bedside while one passed and its not the first time I've witnessed a loved one dying. I've been curious about people who do this for a living, (working in palliative care) what they see and experience, and wanted to know more about it. Although Alua's journey is a beautiful one, I was hoping the book would share more about her clients and the dying experience and less about her personal life.
What I'm Listening to
Messy by Lola Young
Messy by Lola Young was trending on tiktok a couple of months ago, so I had heard snippets of the song here and there. I've recently added it to a playlist and it's one that I tend to repeat after hearing. I think it encompasses the feeling of never feeling good enough because of the hyper-criticism of the people in our lives (society as a whole as well).
What I'm Excited About:
SUNSHINE! Spring is finally in full swing where I live and I'm loving the sun. It just makes everything a little brighter (literally and figuratively) ;)
What I'm Thinking About:
I've been thinking a lot about the word "community" and what it means to me. Where would I like to be, and who would I like to connect to? Where can I find my "people" -How can I show up more for others? I've been really lonely for a long time. I think when people hear the word "lonely" they think -romantic partnership, but that's not what I mean by lonely. I think I trying to find a sense of belonging. I've signed up for a couple of art workshops locally, I'm hoping it will give me the opportunity to meet others with similar interests.
What does "community" mean to you?
xo Glass
Archive:
March 2025
What I'm Reading
Fiction: The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V.E. Schwab- I feel like giving you a summary would give too much away. The book has been out for a while and on my must read pile and I'm so glad I'm finally reading it. I'm enjoying the writing so much, the story line of course, but also the authors ability to weave the most beautiful images together with her words.
Non-fiction: Fed-Up:Emotional Labor, Women and the Way Forward by Gemma Hartley - I think I was a little late in learning the term "Emotional Labor". The first time I heard it was on tiktok in 2020. This book was released in 2018 and there have been others before that. What I like about this topic most, is that it puts a name to something so many of us have felt. The invisible work- both mental and emotional that goes into maintaining relationships especially with men.
What I'm Watching
The Pitt - I think everyone I know is watching this new medical drama right now. Its from the original writer of ER, with Noah Wylie of course. I love the concept of an hour real time = an hour on the show, the season covering a whole shift. The acting is superb, and little things like - no background music, and the way the camera is used through out add to the feel that you're right there in the ER with them. It's been a while since a show has made me forget my phone for an hour, but this one does.
What I'm Listening to
"See Her Out (Thats Just Life)" by Francis and the Lights is on my repeat playlist right now. If you watched Nobody Wants This on Netflix, it will sound familiar.
I've also started listening to delta waves at night before sleep. Falling asleep is challenging for me as my brain doesn't like to stop, but so far this is making some difference.
What I'm Thinking About
Like most people, I'm thinking about the world right now. On a large scale it feels really terrifying, I think that's the intention. To keep us terrified. Scared people are easier to control. But what's happening isn't new. Its been rooted deep in the systems. I do think people have been emboldened to be even louder with hate, and social media propels it. It can be hard to see good in the world, but its there. There are people helping and standing up.
What I ask myself a lot is -
What power do I have right now in this moment and what choices can I make? What aligns with my values, what skills do I have and what can I offer to make a difference?
Sometimes the answer is self care, and rest. Sometimes its donating to my local food bank, or taking some lettuce and tomatoes from the garden and sharing with my neighbours. When I answer those questions and take small steps I feel empowered, because I know the smallest action can make a difference. Kindness has a ripple effect, it moves outward, even if all I can manage in the moment is kindness for myself.